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I find this practice of breast binding = horrific but in a complete opposite to the trends of western society to condition our girls and dress out tweens inappropriately (bras/ tarty clothes etc)both of which I consider to be wrong.
But as the western media jumps onto this practice to champion its reduction (as with genital mutilation in women) - its a shame the media and society doesn't address the really really concerning issue.......Child abuse. More concerning than the practice (of breast binding) is that in 2006 - we still have to protect children from sexual predators and abuse - you would think that when a civilization is that advanced to have computers, email, transport, etc......we don't have the technology/conditioning/higher intelligence to protect our most valuable resource.
Today was a good day - I achieved lots. Had some good counselling resolutions at work - and didn't yell at DennyCrane! Tomorrow is my 10 year anniversary at work (i sound soooo grownup) and Denny is taking me to Lunch to celebrate. He does care. I hope. Still going to hit him up for a payrise (15%) Also tomorrow Morn I am joining a group training/bootcamp thingy with Dean at Kyle Bay - it should be challenging, hurty but fun.
I had a lighbulb moment today - I think when Alywnne died in 1995, although the shock brought me out of the jarrodcoma/haze, i may have adopted a coping mechanism and choose to take on role I did not need to - role of Alwynnes responsibilities and concerns or even what I perceived were her concerns etc. When Gordie was diagnosed with MS last year - it threw me into a coping frenzy. I was supporting him emotionally, physicially, and fiscally to an extend - and whilst I was happy to do it - it do put some stress on me. The point is - I invite stress to take on. But I don't always have to . Yes I can support him like a sister but I don't need to worry about him like a mother. Same with Dad and Lozz&Joe and even Bruce. I need to be primarily concerned with the members of my household. Gunna explore this concept some more.
But as the western media jumps onto this practice to champion its reduction (as with genital mutilation in women) - its a shame the media and society doesn't address the really really concerning issue.......Child abuse. More concerning than the practice (of breast binding) is that in 2006 - we still have to protect children from sexual predators and abuse - you would think that when a civilization is that advanced to have computers, email, transport, etc......we don't have the technology/conditioning/higher intelligence to protect our most valuable resource.
Today was a good day - I achieved lots. Had some good counselling resolutions at work - and didn't yell at DennyCrane! Tomorrow is my 10 year anniversary at work (i sound soooo grownup) and Denny is taking me to Lunch to celebrate. He does care. I hope. Still going to hit him up for a payrise (15%) Also tomorrow Morn I am joining a group training/bootcamp thingy with Dean at Kyle Bay - it should be challenging, hurty but fun.
I had a lighbulb moment today - I think when Alywnne died in 1995, although the shock brought me out of the jarrodcoma/haze, i may have adopted a coping mechanism and choose to take on role I did not need to - role of Alwynnes responsibilities and concerns or even what I perceived were her concerns etc. When Gordie was diagnosed with MS last year - it threw me into a coping frenzy. I was supporting him emotionally, physicially, and fiscally to an extend - and whilst I was happy to do it - it do put some stress on me. The point is - I invite stress to take on. But I don't always have to . Yes I can support him like a sister but I don't need to worry about him like a mother. Same with Dad and Lozz&Joe and even Bruce. I need to be primarily concerned with the members of my household. Gunna explore this concept some more.

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